The secret to finding the right one to marry.

There are so many madness going on in this world as it relates to love and relationships that make me believe that the devil is controlling a lot of men and women, directing them in the path of others to: kill, steal and destroy them. But be wise as a serpent, I will give you the secret to finding the right one to marry for free.

Sometimes we are so desperate to find love and the one we can have a lasting relationship with, therefore we ended up settling for less. We have decided not to wait upon the lord and we find ourselves in the life of those who don’t love and appreciate us. I have heard stories from persons who are ready to commit suicide because of heartbreak. They feel as if they can’t live any longer. Depression strikes. They lose their minds and their jobs all because the one they thought was "the one” has left. That will not be your portion in Jesus name! That is not God’s plan for you! His thought for you is of prosperity and happiness. Yes! He wants you to be happy.

The truth is we all want that "happy ever after". We are sometimes so eager to find the right person that we tend to give chances to every man/woman that seems promising. However, they ended up leaving with a piece of our heart. We are then left in depression with the hope of finding the courage to move on or we choose to give up totally on relationships.

Because of multiple heartbreaks and disappointments, we have decided to believe that the one for us is either "dead or unborn". We have come to believe that we will never find "the one", get married and have a happy married life like others seem to have. Don’t allow the devil to cause you to believe a lie to be true. Don’t be discouraged I am here to share with you the secret to finding the right one to marry.

The secret is as simple as it is and maybe you have heard it before. I can assure you, it is not signing up on multiple dating sites or picking the petals of roses one by one hoping that the last one will signify that he/she loves you, neither is it giving one after the other the chance to show you he/she is the right one. It is Jesus! Yes! That’s how simple finding the right one to marry is. It’s as simple as giving your life to the Lord and having faith that he will supply your needs. The burning truth is, we want it all but we are afraid to give it all to Jesus first. How can we know love and be loved if we don’t know the love of God? He said in his word "But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you" (Matthew 6:33 KJV). This means that when you put the Lord first he will put your needs first.

The Lord knows your desire he knows what is right for you, he knows who is right for you. The question now is: What happens to those who have already given their lives to the Lord? Why haven't they found "the one"? Some of us has already given our life to the Lord but we still have not received that which we seek; "our Mr/Mrs right”. This is so because it takes faith, prayer, humility, obedience and most importantly patience. We have to learn to wait on the Lords time. His time is indeed the right time. I believe that when we have reached the place where we are no longer selective but open our heart, body, mind, and soul to the will of the Lord, that is when we are ready to receive from God that which we seek. Unfortunately many fail to do so and that my friend is one out of the many reasons why we have so many failed marriages.

We cannot do without Jesus; therefore we need him in every walk of life, even in the walk of finding the right person to marry. “He is the glue that will keep you and your partner together when you find him/her”. He said in Psalm 32:8 “I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye”. A long life partner cannot be found by looking through your natural eyes. Let Jesus be the one to guide you. He will do it the spiritual way and there will be no mistake in his choice. When he leads you to what you have been waiting for the Holy Spirit will teach you how to keep it, it will teach you how to forgive, love, embrace and take care of your gem that God has given you.

I can assure you when you give your life to the Lord and submit all to him all your desires will come when you are not even looking.